Monday, November 16, 2009

Has anyone ever had anxiety so bad that the physical symptoms were so debilitating that they couldn't function

I had two years of medical tests for physical reasons, found nothing until a wonderful gastroenterologist sent me to one of his 'colleagues' a shrink, found out that I had lost over 30 kilos because of anxiety, it nearly killed me. I have only heard of people having panic attacks, not the anxiety that would leave me crippled for days, not being able to pick up a cup or work out how to do anything simple, the physical got so bad that it lead to depression. Bad Clinical Depression. Four years later I am still on Medication but doing well, my daughter was ages 6, 7 and 8 through all of this and she has had to watch me suffer, she has suffered more I think, she'll never forget me not being able to get out of bed, take her to school, play with her, get her tea, even watch tv with her, I couldn't sit or stand, I had to pace the house until I would physically fall over because of the feeling in my stomach, Thanks for Listening, boy! I've never written that down before!

Has anyone ever had anxiety so bad that the physical symptoms were so debilitating that they couldn't function
Anxiety, panic attacks and depression can be devastating. I hope that you are doing better and that you have found a way to cope with all of it. There's nothing so misunderstood or defeating as having a physical illness that people don't understand.
Reply:Your daughter will feel proud of you that you got well. She may have her time with the same depression, and you will be there for her.


I have done some of the same as you...It's all part of the journey...sounds like you have made it to the other side. Rejoice with your daughter and don't carry guilt for something you couldn't help. She loves you too.
Reply:Hi, hope you get the right people to help you with this.





Yes, anxiety can be completely disabling. It can cause or be caused by depression and traumatic events.


The reasons for your anxiety will be explored when you are ready, by your therapist.


My friend had this problem starting with panic attacks when her daughter turned 13. Strangest thing...she had never been afraid of anything before.


Finally doctor sent her to a psychiatrist and a good therapist.


Therapist worked with her to reduce anxiety (she also took meds), then worked with her to learn about her childhood and family traumas. Once the original causes of panic and anxiety were known, she became a lot better. This took at least 2 yrs, but worth it.





Remember, a good therapist will listen, and ask you questions that make you figure things out or find things out about yourself. A good therapist doesn't just tell you what you should do - and never how you should feel!


If you aren't comfortable with therapist, keep looking til' you find one you like and trust.


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Reply:I'm super sorry that this happened to you! I know someone very close to me who went through severe clinical depression and anxiety. Anxiety can cause you to become very sick. Some people I know would go to the restroom and get super sick because they were nervous about being in social situations. I think that your children love you so much and that they care about you allot too! They probably get sad when you suffer and they love to see you happy! They probably think that you are strong person and that you are like a hero to them! I hope that you will have a great life and live everyday to the fullest! Just remember that your children love you and that you are the best mom to them!


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