Silent Treatment, were not in elementary...so WTF.?

*My boyfriend has recently been giving me the silent treatment, and I am unaware of his reasoning of why.*





-I have never given him a reason to treat me badly or to ignore me at all. And it hurts that he will not talk to me and give me an explaination of why that is.





*So I'm not sure if this is his lame *** way of breaking up with me or what...but it's immature.





~I've decided to just leave him alone, I mean if he doesn't want to talk to me...then fine. So be it. But I am not going to keep chasing after him...just to be hurt by him.





*I've learned to accept things for the way they are and why he may or may not be talking to me (he's probably cheating) and hey...fu** him....because I know I don't deserve to be treated poorly, especially when I have gone out of my way for him the entire time weve been dating.


*I would cook him homemade dinner and desserts....and do nice little forget me not type things.*


*I'm really a good girlfriend...I'm just a little confused.

Silent Treatment, were not in elementary...so WTF.?
See when you give boys like him everything and spoil him he'll just feel like he's not challenged.So he'll think that all since she does nice things for me all the time he'll feel as though you didn't challenge him enough by doing everything for him or mostly everything.See most guys don't understand a girls when they give them most of the things they want unless they fought to get it or challenged themselves to get it.See boys in relationships are like hunters,if there's a deer they want to have they want to be challenged to hunt it so they can feel rewarded by them completing there task.And if it's easy for them to hunt the deer it won't feel as special to them.Guys like evasive girls and the girl has to be evasive.See he wanted you to challenge him at the beginning of the relationship by limiting things to him until he deserves them.To be truthful some guys show their asses after you be nice,kind to them,give them things,do little nice things for them.I'm not saying be mean to them i'm just saying challenge them a little more,make them work to win the prize and the prize is you.Good Luck!
Reply:A lot of guy's use the silent treatment as a cooling off period,,, a time for thinking and a time of when they don't want to say the wronge thing so they just keep quiet...ie the silent treatment
Reply:Look if you can't get him to talk, or if he just ignores you, what more does he want you to do? You're asking him whats wrong and if he won't tell you then obviously it's something he can't or won't tell you. or he wants you to figure it out. You seem to not feel anything for him and suspect cheating, you do special things for him but he went the immature route so dump him!!





If he doesn't react with the thought of break up then he obviously was cheating or he doesn't care anymore.





Hope this helps... ;)


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Reply:Well look like to me you got all the right answer for yourself. Tell you the truth, there is not a correct answer to why he's doing what he's doing. Like you said he could have met someone else and he thinks that she's more interesting than you or it could be number of other reasons also. Who knows and really who cares. Sound like it's his lost, he had a great lady and threw it away for nothing. One thing for sure he has disregard you for sure. So, be happy you know now instead of later. You are doing the right thing by going on with your life.
Reply:you might have done something to upset him and not know it just try to give him time to come to u before you make any rash decisions
Reply:Communication is the key to any relationship. I have done this to my BF, but have learned to let him know what's bothering me. It sounds like he's irritated with something you did, ask him what's bothering him and go from there. Nothing is worse than getting the silent treatment. Good Luck!
Reply:never stay silent with fresh new batteries
Reply:Dont ignore him!!! Talk to him and try to figure out what is wrong. Be an adult about it. Dont just acuse. Be open to what he has to say. And dont talk down to him or yell. Just be calm.
Reply:This is "Passive-Aggressive" behaviour.





Do stop chasing...
Reply:Now before you go and do anything else, you sit him down and have a very long talk with him. Tell him if you'd done anything wrong it is your right to know about it so that you can correct it. Take it from there. Yes you are a good girl friend that' why you're going to sit him down for that talk.
Reply:screw him. you dont need that.





sounds like his lame as* way of breaking things off. so just leave him alone. he probably likes when you are constantly giving him attention (keep wanting to know why).





so just ignore him. he doesnt deserve you.